He is planning and my mom is well aware, but it's not because he's actually asked her. He's just kind of decided on his own... He wants her to get money after he dies (kind of his retirement money, or something) which is nice for sure, but on the other hand they don't want to join their properties and so they'd want to sign a prenup, BUT I think it's quite logical that this way she won't actually get his retirement money after he dies so.... it's really pointless.
Not to mention my mom isn't very sure about him.
And I don't like him, he's got the crazy eyes and he doesn't understand the meaning of the word "no". He's really annoying. Like, he has this habit (old courtesy) to kiss a woman's hand and I HATE that, it's disgusting, too much proximity and I fucking ugh NO blergh don't go kissing my hand. And I've told him that on numerous occassions by now and every time he keeps on dragging my hand by force to his mouth and says it's how a man shows respect to a lady. And doesn't get that I don't WANT him to kiss my fucking hand. I've never liked it, so it's not really about him.
But also, it's effing weird that the first time he mentioned something about marriage was to grandma IN FRONT OF MOM, but not directly to her, and if I remember correctly he said "when we get married" and not "IF". And mind you, that was the first time he ever mentioned it. And mom told him then, that he should ask her first. He still hasn't to this day, but keeps on planning some shit. And I don't like that at all.
Haha, it was a cabbage roll food baby XD My paternal grandma handmaid them, they're so good <3 Although I have no idea how she managed to make them since she's kind of really sick after the stroke and heart attack
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so i was like.... You know, there's some chronology about the whole ordeal 
Also, I got a food baby now, of course 
