I can relate, i have called in sick to work because of anxiety and depression multiple times.
I am sorry you are having trouble ):
Just remember that despite the feelings of depression that you are having, that you are awesome, and loved and you will get through this!
I tried cognitive behavioral therapy for depression and it really helped me. I enjoy seeing a counselor because it helps to have someone to talk to about it, and she really helps me work through when i am in a funk
Sending Hugs and positive thoughts your way!

Bunnei wrote:I can relate, i have called in sick to work because of anxiety and depression multiple times.
I am sorry you are having trouble ):
Just remember that despite the feelings of depression that you are having, that you are awesome, and loved and you will get through this!
I tried cognitive behavioral therapy for depression and it really helped me. I enjoy seeing a counselor because it helps to have someone to talk to about it, and she really helps me work through when i am in a funk
Sending Hugs and positive thoughts your way!

I have been on Effexor XR since 2001 and I had the same problem not too long ago (about a few months ago). I can't say if it will work for you as I am not your doctor but what worked for me in my opinion was adding another antidepressant to boost the Effexor. For me, my doctor added Abilify and I have been feeling pretty darn great and it is such a refreshing change! Maybe have another conversation with your doctor when you can and see what works for you. I hope you find a good solution for you. I know how tough this can be.

P.S.

I still get lectures from my momma and I am 34