I'm fat. I'm obese. I need to lose weight. My weight has always gone up and down drastically.
A few years ago, I lost about 40 pounds.
Then I gained it all back.
So I'm a fat person.
I tend to call myself fat a lot. Because I am.
My family gets angry and tells me not to put myself down or talk badly about myself.
But I am fat. I'm just speaking fact.
However, I don't call anyone else fat because I know that can be hurtful.
I guess I'm used to insulting myself that if I do talk badly about myself, it's just normal.
I told my sister that when people insult you based on your looks, they're not clever enough to come up with better insults.
I told her if someone calls me fat as an insult - Okay. I'm fat. My eyes are green. My hair is brown. What else you got? Nothing? What a waste of time.
I tend to be blunt about a lot of things.
I have been learning how to stay silent or say things nicely.
I don't like people using honesty as a way to meanly insult others.
You can be honest without being mean.
Do you speak facts a lot?