I usually don't like talking to people when I'm feeling depressed and anxious because it feels like I'm bringing down their moods and ruining the atmosphere.
It's like...so selfish of me to make others feel bad because I feel bad.
Part of me knows that it helps to talk about your feelings. Having someone to listen to you helps a lot. I have had the same therapist for a long time and when I go talk to him, I feel a lot better.
The other part of me knows people don't like to feel sad or bad.
If it's not their problem, they shouldn't have to care or listen.
I'm someone that will sit and listen to someone. I don't talk much and I don't think I have good advice, but I will sit and listen to you. And I know that helps sometimes.
I always get told "Don't complain!" so my depression and anxiety are just me complaining.
But it goes with "Why are you depressed? People have it worse than you!" which means nothing when it comes to depression and other forms of mental illness.
I think silence kills. People have issues and having someone listen helps.
Do you like talking to people when you're upset?