Ayaaa~
Your hubby is definitely more complicated than mine. I think I kinda understand though. Of course you want him to be on a healthy food regimen as well. That energy and effort you put into him though might be draining you of your will to do it for yourself too. He would need to contribute with the same amount of energy :T If he doesn't have it, it's not going to work, tbh. We can't force anyone if they don't want to do it enough themselves- even if we want the best for them. If he is unwilling to change his ways, ... well... I don't know the situation of you two well enough to say ^^; but communication is always a good thing. Have you two had a sit-down about eating healthier?
I don't think there is anything wrong with eating the same thing either! That sounds like a bit much imo; wanting new things at every meal. If you made a lot of something, of course you should eat it all first. It goes bad first! We use a rule of "first in, first out" in our house. My hubbie knows this and will play to it. Shame is he can't do as I did to lose the weight, so we just handle things daily. He will eat what I make without complaint, at least
sorry it is more difficult in your situation. Ngl, I would be livid if mine made such demands of me, lol. "You want something different? Make it yourself." How long would he last doing this for every meal, I wonder? : P
You're very welcome
I really do want to see you feeling better.
If you're self-motivated, that's a great attribute! That would mean you don't need to depend on anyone else to go for walks or eat what you want to. Best I can say is make sure you're focusing that energy on yourself primarily. Yeah, you want to help him, but again, he's
got to put his own energy into it or it's a failure from the get-go. I don't want you to feel dismay as if you were the cause of both your failures to keep healthy. You just keep on as you are, trying to change. He must follow suit of his own will.