Kingdom of Knuffel

I haven't seen a yellow kiwi. XD Sorry.

I used to complain a lot. I guess I still do sometimes. I'm just really picky. XD And I have strong emotions and thoughts about everything. It's rare that I don't have an opinion or that I'm indifferent about something. For me, it doesn't really have anything to do with being happy or not, especially since I've worked on being more positive. I just voice my opinion when I hate something, which happens to be a lot. XD

Oh, and sometimes I feel bad about it if I think others think I'm a party pooper.

I will complain all I want. Be grateful? Sure, depending on what's going on.

I have the bad habit of bottling things up inside, so I perceive complaining to be an actual good thing. However, the problem for me is that people feel the need to do something with those complaints, whereas it's mostly just for getting it all out.

I also hate how lying is the custom, so I rather say I am unhappy with something than to fake it. It's already tough enough to say you're fine every darn time someone asks how you're doing 'because it is the only socially accepted answer' so I rather leave honesty to the rest.

Though I do believe the world needs more positivity, we can't do it by simply ignoring the bad. It's there. Bottling it up and faking your life is not going to be the solution either.

As for the questions, I complain a lot in online spaces, not so much directly to people anymore. Don't want to feel like I'm bothering people. So yeah, basically... I feel bad about it, and I often feel bad in general (especially with the current pandemic), so yeah. As for a yellow kiwi, I can only say I've seen gold kiwifruit, not so much yellow kiwis, hehe.

I think it's not about complaining, but about the balance. Some people talk about the negative stuff, but don't mention the positives. It makes them seem very complainy and usually demotivate people around them. I had a time in my life where I was very negative. It drove all my friends away, making me feel worse and complain more.

I think you can complain all you want as long as you also talk about the positive stuff around you.

And of course I've seen yellow kiwis. They're pretty good too.

the bird or the fruit? Either way i don't think I've ever seen one outside pictures

i've tried to stop being so negative, even if i'm just of the disposition of complaining all the time. it's hard to be positive when you don't feel positive, but you can at least try not to be negative around other people if there's no need, so that's what i try to do. the operative here being "if there is no need." sometimes it's necessary to complain, or else someone might not know they're doing something that's causing you difficulty, which of course leads to misunderstandings.

and no, i've never seen a yellow kiwi, either fruit or bird.

Googles yellow kiwi... what even is this thing?

Internally I complain an awful lot (but then I've heard complaining is a national trait of ours). When it comes to complaining to others it's more complicated. The more comfortable I am with someone, the more likely I am to voice my complains. It's mostly because I believe everyone has enough problems of their own to bother with mine (and it's not like whining will make anything better so why bother).