i'm 99.999% sure there is life out there, but i think they'd be way different from what we are. they probably don't have a humanoid form and no one is coming to get us. i'm sure if they knew about us (and our technology is nowhere near achieving very distant contact) they'd ignore us the same way we ignore ants. i watched a pretty interesting yt video by kurzgesagt about the
kardashev scale, i agree with a lot of what they said. for as much as we like thinking it does, the universe doesn't revolve around us