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My little baybee, Emiliano Fidel <3
Born on August 12th, 2018  32%  [ 20 ]
Right before Ezra's birthday, August 13th  68%  [ 42 ]
Total votes : 62
 Post subject: Re: { 秋 } [ нєxcσdє ] [ Aki can draw again ~ ♡ ]
Posted: Jul 13th, '14, 04:41    


Kaiamond

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Location: At work, of course! *dead*
I admit, it sounds like he needs to go to Rehab and get clean before he can really focus on being a good father. Not to mention, it sounds like one surprise drug test at work could result in him being jobless, too.

I still stand by the idea that you should look into a job for yourself so you won't have to rely on him. I have to admit, I've got people in my family whose husbands chose their addictions over their wives and children. Since it's personal, I'd rather not talk about it here, but if you want me to explain in PM, I can.

In the end, I vote he gets help before things get any worse. He can't be a good father if he can't be clean and present for it, and able to help care for it, really.

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 Post subject: Re: { 秋 } [ нєxcσdє ] [ Aki can draw again ~ ♡ ]
Posted: Jul 13th, '14, 08:55    


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Ziaheart

Joined: Jun 22nd, '08, 18:31
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Location: Canada
Wasn't there a deportation threat for him, too? Being caught high might be a problem with that, too.

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 Post subject: Re: { 秋 } [ нєxcσdє ] [ Aki can draw again ~ ♡ ]
Posted: Jul 13th, '14, 10:46    


Light of Aurora

Joined: Apr 15th, '11, 13:02
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Kaiamond wrote:I admit, it sounds like he needs to go to Rehab and get clean before he can really focus on being a good father. Not to mention, it sounds like one surprise drug test at work could result in him being jobless, too.

I still stand by the idea that you should look into a job for yourself so you won't have to rely on him. I have to admit, I've got people in my family whose husbands chose their addictions over their wives and children. Since it's personal, I'd rather not talk about it here, but if you want me to explain in PM, I can.

In the end, I vote he gets help before things get any worse. He can't be a good father if he can't be clean and present for it, and able to help care for it, really.
Agree with all of this. I know you can draw. Maybe try that as job. I saw that people on Deviant Art posting job offers, for people who can actually draw, and try. You've nothing to lose :D Hope all goes well for you and your little bundle of joy :D

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 Post subject: Re: { 秋 } [ нєxcσdє ] [ Aki can draw again ~ ♡ ]
Posted: Jul 24th, '14, 01:07    


Deer In Gray

Joined: Dec 6th, '09, 21:16
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I can't get a job until I have the baby.
But I do plan on getting one. And I always feel so bad for coming here
and ranting about him. It makes it seem like all he is is a druggie and he's
terrible, but he's actually a really great man and he does care about me
and the baby. We'll pull through this and it will take some work, but I do hope
you guys don't all think he's just a big asshat because he's not. <3 Haha.

:C He's actually been out of work all last week and this week taking
care of me. He went back to work today and I know it sucked because
it's like hot as fuck and humid as fuck and uncomfortable as fuck and he's
outside working in that heat all day. D,8 I wish he didn't have to work.

I feel lame because I don't work. I just sit here and he works all the time
and makes all the money. Then spends it all on me. :/

Also hi y'all. 8D *Shot*



ι gσт α вσу мєσтנιη ι gσт α вσу cнαкнαη
ι gσт α вσу нαηdѕσмє вσу, ηαємαм dα gαנуєσ gαη

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My handsome sons, Ezra Alonzo and Emiliano Fidel !

( My old username was Agriimony )
➜ DeviantArt !

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RIP, Mommy.
04/14/57 ~ 09/05/15
RIP, Daddy.
07/02/63 ~ 05/07/18

{ αят ѕнoρ } { мαтєяιαlѕ } { ѕєllιηg } { вυуιηg }
{ мαякєт } { нαngσυт } { fαcєвσσк } { Gaia }


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 Post subject: Re: { 秋 } [ нєxcσdє ] [ Aki can draw again ~ ♡ ]
Posted: Jul 24th, '14, 12:13    


Light of Aurora

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When it comes to working as freelance artist, you work from home. So try using your drawing skills :D

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My dream avatar wishlist. Quest after a long time. Help is appreciated
Body (female) (2) - RS, 250 FP
Eyes 1 (Apricot) - RS, 250 FP
Mouth 1
Hair 61 (Black) - CC, 50 FP
Background 1
Basic Magic Wand (Midnight Blue) - BR, 55 FP
Abby Glasses (Midnight Blue) - BR, 210 FP
Abyss Dress (Soft Blue) - LF, 6700 FP
AlkseeyaKC's Desk (Apricot) - PR, 250 FP
Ace Neckribbon (Apricot) - BR, 85 FP
Clean Guro Lolita Long Hair
Ghostly Knuffel Hat (Claret)
Hyades Eyes (Gold)
Hyades Lips (Gold)
Air Gen 8 Headwings (Aqua)

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 Post subject: Re: { 秋 } [ нєxcσdє ] [ Aki can draw again ~ ♡ ]
Posted: Jul 24th, '14, 12:21    


Deer In Gray

Joined: Dec 6th, '09, 21:16
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I've been trying. xD
I'm using DA to try and get IRL commissions. ~



ι gσт α вσу мєσтנιη ι gσт α вσу cнαкнαη
ι gσт α вσу нαηdѕσмє вσу, ηαємαм dα gαנуєσ gαη

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My handsome sons, Ezra Alonzo and Emiliano Fidel !

( My old username was Agriimony )
➜ DeviantArt !

Image Image Image

RIP, Mommy.
04/14/57 ~ 09/05/15
RIP, Daddy.
07/02/63 ~ 05/07/18

{ αят ѕнoρ } { мαтєяιαlѕ } { ѕєllιηg } { вυуιηg }
{ мαякєт } { нαngσυт } { fαcєвσσк } { Gaia }


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 Post subject: Re: { 秋 } [ нєxcσdє ] [ Aki can draw again ~ ♡ ]
Posted: Jul 24th, '14, 16:50    


Light of Aurora

Joined: Apr 15th, '11, 13:02
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if you haven't, try https://www.odesk.com/

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My dream avatar wishlist. Quest after a long time. Help is appreciated
Body (female) (2) - RS, 250 FP
Eyes 1 (Apricot) - RS, 250 FP
Mouth 1
Hair 61 (Black) - CC, 50 FP
Background 1
Basic Magic Wand (Midnight Blue) - BR, 55 FP
Abby Glasses (Midnight Blue) - BR, 210 FP
Abyss Dress (Soft Blue) - LF, 6700 FP
AlkseeyaKC's Desk (Apricot) - PR, 250 FP
Ace Neckribbon (Apricot) - BR, 85 FP
Clean Guro Lolita Long Hair
Ghostly Knuffel Hat (Claret)
Hyades Eyes (Gold)
Hyades Lips (Gold)
Air Gen 8 Headwings (Aqua)

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 Post subject: Re: { 秋 } [ нєxcσdє ] [ Aki can draw again ~ ♡ ]
Posted: Jul 26th, '14, 20:12    


Deer In Gray

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I definitely will!

:0 You know, I'm 38 weeks today!



ι gσт α вσу мєσтנιη ι gσт α вσу cнαкнαη
ι gσт α вσу нαηdѕσмє вσу, ηαємαм dα gαנуєσ gαη

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My handsome sons, Ezra Alonzo and Emiliano Fidel !

( My old username was Agriimony )
➜ DeviantArt !

Image Image Image

RIP, Mommy.
04/14/57 ~ 09/05/15
RIP, Daddy.
07/02/63 ~ 05/07/18

{ αят ѕнoρ } { мαтєяιαlѕ } { ѕєllιηg } { вυуιηg }
{ мαякєт } { нαngσυт } { fαcєвσσк } { Gaia }


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 Post subject: Re: { 秋 } [ нєxcσdє ] [ It's almost time!! ]
Posted: Jul 26th, '14, 21:20    


Chronosplit

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Id's habbening!

Soon, anyway. Are you prepared just in case things start early?

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 Post subject: Re: { 秋 } [ нєxcσdє ] [ It's almost time!! ]
Posted: Jul 27th, '14, 18:20    


Deer In Gray

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For the most part, yes.
We have plenty of diapers and wipes to start out with.
We have plenty of clothes and blankies to start out with [ although
according to my Mom, I'm gonna need a lot more plain onesies and
receiving blankets than I have, since newborns make messes LOL ].
We have the car seat and stroller, Angel's parents are buying us a Crib,
so that's taken care of. I'm breastfeeding him, so we don't really need
bottles or anything, but we have some anyway. Along with plenty
of bibs and stuffed things, etc. The only things I really still need are
a breast pump, a diaper bag [ but if I can't get one by the time I go
into labor, Angel's mom has an old one I can use. I can also just go without
one and use one of my big purses, nbd lol ] and maybe a carrier sling.
I think those are cool and they're a lot better than carrying the baby
around in the carseat carrier thingy all the time. They're lightweight but
they're still big and bulky and hard to walk with. With a sling, he can be
right next to me all the time unless he's in the car seat. :u <3
I'll have to order one, though. So idk if I'll have it before I go into labor or what.

Thankfully, I have the feeling he's gonna be nice and LATE rather
than early . . . >> Which is good, might buy us another week for
organization. Actually, Angel is getting off work early today, and he said
he wants to start getting the room ready for the baby. Which basically
just means, get rid of all the shit we don't need [ which means the dog
cages!!!! YES!!! ] and setting up this entertainment system to be the baby
station, moving what furniture that needs to be moved, etc.
I'm excited for that, only I feel like I won't be much help. I envy those
9-month-pregnant women who can still get up and move and work and
help around the house and do shit. I can hardly walk, let alone get up
multiple times, I can't bend over to pick anything up without pain. xD
I ended up being one of the lucky few with BAD ligament pain. My whole
pelvis area, the top of my legs, around my jay, the base of my tummy,
it ALL hurts SOOOO bad if I move. It hurts to sit, stand, roll over, lift
my legs, bend, anything. :/ And I know rearranging a room is gonna be
difficult if I can't move. xD Good thing Angel doesn't mind doing everything
for me. 8'D *Sits on a padded throne*



ι gσт α вσу мєσтנιη ι gσт α вσу cнαкнαη
ι gσт α вσу нαηdѕσмє вσу, ηαємαм dα gαנуєσ gαη

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My handsome sons, Ezra Alonzo and Emiliano Fidel !

( My old username was Agriimony )
➜ DeviantArt !

Image Image Image

RIP, Mommy.
04/14/57 ~ 09/05/15
RIP, Daddy.
07/02/63 ~ 05/07/18

{ αят ѕнoρ } { мαтєяιαlѕ } { ѕєllιηg } { вυуιηg }
{ мαякєт } { нαngσυт } { fαcєвσσк } { Gaia }


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