Contests are fun though! :)

Lol, mem, that sounds really weird! :D Did you tell him that you had been joking or did you just think that and let him believe it?

@Chrizine: for a short while I let him believe it (he said something like "I still think you're a vlauable person" so I was a little weirded out, I mean more than before of course, and wondered if I should take it as offence or a compliment. For the sake of my psyche I chose the compliment), then told him it was just a joke. So he asked me if I believe in anything or is it complicated or what.

@jacob: Lool, what a guy xD
This one tried to get me to meet and "talk about anything" and when I said I'm not really up for that, he offered karaoke, then I mentioned I would need alcohol, and from then on, I could casually start talking and talking about my boyfriend. I don't know if that's the reason the guy finally shut up and left me alone, but whatever it was, it worked xD



I'm so pissed about my weekend tho

Weird xD

Why mem, what's with your weekend? Change of plans?

Had an informative lesson for my master's today: turned out we are only 5 people starting this semester xD xD xD Nice! They are very nice though and the profs seem very open-minded and friendly :)

Btw, a guy was constantly annoying me, writing me or talking to me (weird stuff) when we met (usually during volleyball lessons). Once I dropped (on purpose of course) that I cannot write now as I am busy with my boyfriend (I wrote sth like we are cooking) and he instantly stopped writing me xD

Yup XD

Not a change of plans, but a very not nice family confrontation. Because my grandma's name day was this Sunday, and everybody lost their fucking minds about me and Ash not wanting to be there in the same apartment with my sister.

Lol, that's very comfortable learning environment actually! Awesome! and great to hear the professors seem nice so far
*confetti rain*

Haha, well, at least most guys know when to stop pestering a girl. Some could feel invincible and say "boyfriend's not a wall, one can move him away"

Oh, that sounds stressful mem :(

I never know when to drop the "I have a boyfriend" :D Like, people make fun of girls saying it whenever a guy speaks to them, but on the other hand, if I have a long conversation with a guy before mentioning him (always try to mention it casually like your example Julez) guys sometimes seem grumpy about that, too.
So I'm like "what the hell am I supposed to do? I can't read your minds guys!" :D

It was so stressfull that I got a migraine yesterday because of it. And Ash got a nervous stomach again. x.x But nooooo, "it's not normal (to not come to your grandma's name day)", "why can't you come and sit there for grandma?", "this is so immature". Yes, it's not normal to have physical discomfort caused by just thinking about someone. We can't go there, because this stupid bitch causes us the physical discomfort (caused by mental discomfort concerning her). What's immature, is doing some serious shit to your family, then act all offended and making claims and not talking to your family for a few years, only to come back and pretend nothing ever happened, and bein gpretty blunt about not wanting to apoligize "because she has nothing to apologize for". That's exactly what I told you she'd do, and what she's told me she'd do, and they still wanna play her game "because she's family". No, she's a selfish, manipulative bitch, you bunch of idiots without self value x.x
But I'm the bad guy here.
/angry rant

Lol, once I start talking about Ash, I could go on all day long, and then some XD There is something about it. How else are we supposed to react? Say nothing until he tries to kiss us or something? Then he'll be like "bitch, why didn't you say so sooner? D:<" Srsly, whatever you do, it's wrong. *groans*

This sound annoying mem :( I am sorry to hear you are the arse for your family again >.<

Yea Chrizine, I am like that, too xD
I mean I also wanna know if a guy I am interested in has a girlfriend. He should not drop it at the beginning like
Me: hi
He: Sorry, I have a gf
Me: WHAAT i just wanted to talk >>

So like you said, casually drop a hint xD
Once a guy gave me his number (after I asked) and later on he wrote me he has a girlfriend. So why give me his number in the first place...?

It is a comfy environment, indeed ^.^

It's not only annoying, but also not fair (what hurts me even more, blame it on being Libra or something, Idunno). They fail to understand that she actually makes me/us physically sick. So it's better for me (my mental and physical health, which I think is important, right?) to stay away. But no, they either don't believe me or don't even hear me when I speak. Everytime it's the same story. Grandma tries to lamely hide the fact my sister is gonna come. I say we're not gonna be there then. Nobody believes me, and when I don't show up, it's a phone call from granny, then from mom. And the same stupid question: "what's happening? are you coming?" And every time I have to say the same thing over and over again. "Nothing's happening, I told you I can't be there, can you kindly fuck off please? Gimme a break?" They can't accept the fact I'm not gonna pretend everything's fine.
It's the first time in my life that I'm trying to stay true to myself, pay attention to what I feel and want, and everyone's freaked out. It's like that meme with Joker. Agree with everyone all your life and nobody cares. Stand your ground for once and everybody loses their fucking mind. It's so unfair. I deserve to have a peaceful Sunday and I should be able to say I'm not gonna spend my time with a person like her, simply because I do not want to.
Sorry for ranting so much, but that's a deep and painful topic

Haha, maybe he was interested, but wanted to let you know it's only going to be a temporary/one-time thing xD
But yeah, casual hints are the best. What else is there to do

I totally understand and support you there, mem! You should keep it all up like this..
It's a totally different topic, but similar behavior.
When I stopped eating meat my parents and my whole family, especially my Mum's family, felt personally insulted, as if I did not like the way they cooked it (so stupid). And this was going on for 3 (!) years! Every time, every day, the same shit. "Why aren't you eating meat? Come on, let me give you a hand. I put you some on your plate." NOOOOOO DONT DARE TO DO THAT

So probably it's time what you family needs? To see/understand that you are not only like this in this certain amount of time, but that you're hurt for the rest of your life? Dunno..