I would not mind wearing what my avatar was wearing, but it is not really socially acceptable and other people's emotions about that would bother me

lol...the fox stuff or the top? or both? the fox stuff would prolly be more acceptable, but idk

Both really. Though I've had less attention given to me in animal ears than I have wearing a swimsuit, so...

Catcalling would be validating if not for the included malicious emotions I get with it

Yeah I don't have many positive memories with catcalling eiher, so i know what you mean serra. Heck I only met Keith because of a forum I had been running and later met him in person, otherwise i"m not sure if i'd be in a relationship at all because every guy i've met in my area is not someone I'd want to date.

all the guys in my area are scum or don't want to see past my obesity.

I have luckily met some nice guys, but there are so many examples of not nice guys

I have a boyfriend, but even if I didn't, there aren't any evening activities here outside of going to a bar, and I don't do bars.

I feel that too many people assume that those who go to bars are looking for quick sex, not companionship.