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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: May 1st, '18, 23:10    
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>XD
I am not good at social interactions.
I will say things like ">> -sniff- YOU SMELL GOOD" or start talking about murders or torture methods and just shit people don't usually want to hear, but I know not to touch random people.
You keep your hands to yourself. You can ask "May I touch your belly?" but even that is very weird to me xD
And I really don't like being touched. Don't touch my arm, don't touch my leg, don't touch my shoulder, don't touch my back, don't touch my face, don't touch my hair.
Those are incredibly...personal and intimate things to do.
You don't do it to strangers ._.

I said "Yes ma'am/sir" until my mid twenties xD
Which was weird when I was 20 something and the waiter or waitress was like 16-18 ._.
It's not required to be polite, but it's natural for me.
I even push my chair in when I leave.
Other people don't and it irks me so I push theirs in xD

I will stand and wait behind people. Which does sound kind of creepy now because most of the time, they don't know I'm there. I somehow sneak up on people a lot. I remember this one girl was at her locker and mine was above hers, so she was bent over, digging through hers. She eventually noticed me and she slowly turned around and saw me and said "Why didn't you just ask me to move my big butt out of the way ._." but that's RUDE xD
I wait until someone's done. I don't rush them or tell them to move. I may say excuse me, but usually I won't because they're busy.

>XD
SOUNDS PERFECT 8U -packs-

My parents really are good at talking to people. They both worked at Walmart and say that's why. But they come off as people that you can talk to and won't judge you and will actually listen.
My parents have done bad things, but they never made me feel stupid or weird or like they didn't love me.

I've been with them at stores and had people in wheelchairs ask them "Can you possibly grab that for me 8u/'' and they said "Sure 8D" and made sure they picked the right one and the person would say "Thank you 8]" and they'd say "You're very welcome 8D"
If it was me, I'd do it, but I'd like not be able to reach it or like fumble it or even drop it. Then I'd want to just die 8u
But we've been in line and a stranger would say something and my parents would respond and the stranger would go "I know that's right >xD" and even more people may join in.

I have also seen people do that elsewhere and people respond in anger and even racial slurs.
Like this woman was bitching on her phone that a place was closed, and this man tried to help her by saying there was another one close by and she turned to him and started yelling at him and calling him racial slurs and shit.
That's so fucking unnecessary and wrong.
He wasn't being rude or snarky or anything. He was trying to help her.
But he made the most awesome response.
She said "ARE YOU THE ONE I WAS TALKING TO!?" and he said "My name is Juan 8u" and she got pissed xD



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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: May 2nd, '18, 02:26    
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Ahahaha has anyone ever think that you were flirting with them? Because that's totes a something someone would say when flirting. The smelling good thing, not the torture thing. It might be a good subject to talk about over coffee/first date, though.

Yeah, I would never ask. I will touch if the other person tells me to feel it but even that's really weird to me, to be honest.

Eh, I will touch people's arm when I'm trying to get their attention because my voice is super soft.

I push chairs in, too. In this one class, this guy kept sitting on the aisle seat on the same row as me and then leave his desk up (and blocking the way out) when he left the class so that I'd have to put it down in order to get out of the class myself. So, since that seat had both a right-hand desk and a left-hand desk, I lifted up the left-hand desk when I got in the class (I always arrive earlier than him) and left it up for him to put down in order to get to his seat. He took the hint, though.

I still call people sir and ma'am. But it's usually when I'm offering them seats on the train and buses so they usually are older than me.

Well, I think she was just waiting for her food to come out while my boyfriend wanted to figure out what to order.

Yay!

I think I just have one of those faces, too. Even when I've got my earbuds in and I'm doing my best to make my "don't-talk-to-me" face, people always come to ask me for directions and stuff.

I envy you. My parents have made me feel stupid and weird and unloved plenty of times.

I try to respond to strangers' conversations but people just look at me weird. It's awkward.

Hahaha that's awesome! A couple at the church I used to attend got married and the guy's name is Juan and they made this comic they showed at their wedding of how they met and how the girl was confused that his name was One. Like, what a weird name. But it's okay because it turned out he was the "Juan" for her~ OOOOOOH

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: May 2nd, '18, 22:17    
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No, but someone said I was flirting with them when I asked their favorite food, music, food, etc ._.
I was like....I'm not flirting, I'm just curious >>
And they said "Yeah okay ;]"

I say stuff a lot before I think about what I'm saying.
If something smells good, I say "Hey, that smells good."
So if someone smells good, I say "Hey, you smell good."
But numerous people told me that's creepy and I would have creeped them out.
But like...why do you wear perfume? To smell good. So why is "You smell good." creepy ._.

I might touch if they tell me to. I've never felt a baby kick but everyone is always like "8U COOL!" so I'm intrigued 8u

I don't know. I guess it's the reverse as "You smell good." for me.
I don't like being touched. That means you can hurt me if you can touch me.
Even when my family does it, I don't like it. But I know they wouldn't hurt me.
And some people don't mind. They're huggers or just pat someone on the shoulder or just grab someone's arm when they laugh.
The only time that it doesn't bother me is if someone is scared and they grab onto my arm.
When people do that, I know they're scared and they cling to me for safety and it makes me happy 8,u

>XD
That's funny. Glad he learned 8u
It just seems so...rude.
But not like "WOW YOU'RE SO RUDE >8u" but like people might run into it when trying to walk by it or someone might trip and fall. I also do it so workers don't have to. They're already busy as it is 8u

I kind of feel...old when people call me ''Ma'am". Maybe that's another reason I stopped using it xD
People don't mean to be that way, but when someone goes "Ma'am!" I'm like "I know they're not talking to me >>" because I still feel like a teen most of the time u8

I'll never forget the time I went to Starbucks and this guy ahead of us ordered the same drink and I didn't know that, so when they called the drink, I reached for it, and he said "That one's mine xD". He wasn't rude or anything, but I felt like dying. 8u

I noticed a lot of people online, mostly on here o_O, have bad relationships with their parents and it's sad.
My parents were drug addicts and my mom was an alcoholic and they've done terrible things.
They both apologize to me, but I mean, I never wanted anyone else to be my parents.
And I know it's hard to get rid of guilt, even if people forgive you.
I'm of the mindset that if you are sorry, it's best. You can't change the past, but if you are sorry, it's water under the bridge with me 8u

>XD
That's so sweet 8,u
Yeah, it can sound like "One".
Someone made a parody of this guy in the music industry that says "And another one" a lot.
He was handing stuff to Mexicans and was like "Another Juan. And another Juan. Is your name Juan?" "No, I'm Miguel." "....You played yourself."



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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: May 3rd, '18, 03:16    
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Haha, yeah, those are also very nice conversation topics for coffee or first date. But also for just meeting new people. It can be hard sometimes.

You could say, "I like your perfume. What is it?" instead, maybe?

It's okay. I'm not convinced that people aren't just saying that to be polite.

Haha, aw, you're such a protector. :qh: I actually like it when my boyfriend touches my arm or something because he's strong enough to hurt me but he won't.

That's very nice of you. :qsml: People don't always think so far.

Haha, I know what you mean. I'd rather be a ma'am than a sweetie, though.

Yeah, it can be embarrassing even if it's an easy mistake. Gotta remember that it's not the end of the world.

My mom's apologized for her past actions so we're cool. My dad just makes it my fault. So we aren't talking.

I don't get that. He wasn't going to give it to anyone other than Juans?

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: May 6th, '18, 02:09    
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I tend to ask questions like that to get to know people.
But I can easily get caught up and ask personal stuff xD;
What's your favorite food? What's your favorite movie? What's your favorite drink? What kind of medication do you take? Do you go to therapy? What kind of underwear do you like?
I don't do it to be creepy or anything, I just get really caught up and am curious ._.;

Yeah, but that would require me thinking first xD
Which I don't do a lot.

I like protecting people. My bestie held onto my arm until it became numb while we were watching a horror movie.



That's the video. Maybe you can get it instead of me explaining 8u
I should start doing that more often xD
I can be confusing u8

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: May 7th, '18, 08:26    
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Do you like, stay on the topic for a bit before moving onto the next one? Like, "Oh, you like [food]? I tried it once [experience of trying it and my impression of it]." The medication onwards might be a bit TMI so I'm assuming those were a joke. :qlol:

Well gotta get into the habit of it first and then you don't have to think about it, right? :qt:

My boyfriend wrung my wrist while we were watching a Korean horror movie. It hurt. lol It was funny, though, because he's always talking about how horror movies are so predictable that they're boring.

I still don't understand.

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: May 7th, '18, 22:17    
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I can. It depends on their answers.
I had a neighbor come over to sit with me a while and I was like "You want a drink? You hungry? You comfortable? What kind of medication do you take? Do you see a psychiatrist?"
She has mental problems and so do I so I wanted to talk about it but now it seems pretty personal and stupid to ask 8u

>XD
Usually they are, but sometimes they get me 8u
Sometimes I'll know a jump scare is coming but it gets me anyways xD

8u awww.

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: May 8th, '18, 01:08    
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Well, maybe talking about your own experiences and not just others makes it more small talk and less flirty. I don't know. lol

explain to meeeeee

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: May 12th, '18, 02:04    
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I don't know what else to explain.
He needed Juan's but one guy was Miguel so he wasn't wanted xD

I went to get a pineapple shake and they don't use pineapples there anymore ;~;

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 Post subject: Re: The ₡a$i₦o
Posted: May 12th, '18, 02:48    
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Oh. I don't know if I find that very funny. "You played yourself" sounds like if he just nodded and said his name is Juan he wouldn't have missed out on something.

That's too bad. I love pineapples. Where didja go?

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