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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Dec 11th, '19, 19:43    


jacobgrey

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I was pissed enough to yell at something, but it wasn't totally my business so I couldn't really. Also probably not good practice to go yell at your future in-laws XD So I just riled J up about it enough that he yelled at his dad instead.

I had a friend, or, well, kind-of-friend in school who was the same. He was so smart, top in all classes and he got an unconditional offer to Cambridge as well as A* grades in everything in our final exams. But socially, he was... beyond awkward. Like even into creepy territory fairly regularly. We were kind of the gang of freaks of the school so we tolerated him hanging around well enough and had fun with him from time to time, but just wow. No social smarts at all.
(not even in like the way that I fail, with social anxiety and hating small talk and stuff. Way beyond that. a total lack of understanding).
(I feel like an example is justified as I'm probably not explaining properly haha. The creepiest time that comes to mind is when I was with my then-boyfriend, sitting in the common room with everyone else, but having our own private conversation. He started tickling me to get me to laugh. Next thing I know this guy, on the other side, started to also tickle me - and under my shirt as well. he would just simply copy others without understanding the nuances of acceptability and what is the difference between what you can do with a friend vs in a couple. He wasn't autistic or had any kind of mental limitations etc, he just spent such a high percentage of his time studying that he lacked any knowledge at all about how to act).

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Dec 11th, '19, 22:25    


Moi

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Oh, no, I meant cuss out the mechanics xD

That would be me. Not Autistic, but I have been locked away in my house for years. I'm not good at dealing with people because I never really had to except in school. Even in school, I kept to myself and my handful of friends.

I think I can come off creepy too sometimes. Without meaning to.
Like when someone is wearing nice perfume or cologne, I'll say "You smell good!" which people told me is creepy and weird. They said "Say their perfume/cologne smells nice instead." but that's not how my mind works xD
And it's not like I'm in their personal space - I can smell them from across a room.

I also love things like serial killers and murder and stuff - true crime stuff.
I've started telling people fucked up things that turned them away.
To me, it's really interesting and to them it's horrific.

I have learned that people don't like to hear certain things, so I won't say them.
But like if you put me in some situations - I don't know how to deal with them.

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Dec 12th, '19, 00:28    


jacobgrey

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I didn't have any right to yell at them for sure, since I wasn't their customer XD But I sure as hell gave them the evil eye and laid curses on them in my head every time we drove past hahaha.

Different circles find different things creepy. Me and J and also my dad are true crime fanatics so we wouldn't find it creepy at all :D We would be leaning in like "tell me more" and then "oh I heard about this one, isn't it when this thing happened?".

I have this same problem with talking to people, which is why I hate small talk. I know lots of stuff about things that people don't like to hear or don't want to hear about. If I'm in a room full of writers it's fine but normal people don't want to hear about the intricacies of working with KDP and how to format a back matter page XD
Actually, now we brought it up I'm realising that the interests I have are mostly super-specific and niche. I don't tend to like things that everyone talks about like mainstream sports or reality TV shows. This is probably why I hated working in an office 99% of the time :'D

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Dec 12th, '19, 05:07    


Lady River

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I like crime stuff too!

haah I just say that to Peter, generally after hugging him. So I just sorta hug him more and sniff his shirt xD I'm so weird.

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Dec 13th, '19, 22:03    


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I think true crime stuff is really interesting. Especially the forensics part. They can find out so much now with forensics. I saw a case recently where they isolated this specific gene and knew it could only be a male from only one family because it was being passed down to all the males. Since it was a small town, they were able to get samples and found the killer.
It's also interesting to know that they can tell if wounds are self-inflicted and figure out where and how someone was killed just because the blood splatter locations and angles.
It's also funny to see how people are so poorly educated on how forensics works when they decide to kill someone.
No matter how smart they think they are - they're not smart enough to fool police xD
However, there are people that do know a bit about it and remove the victim's fingers, head and teeth so the police won't easily be able to find the victim's identity :\


I hate small talk so much. I also hate meeting new people.
My uncle is supposed to come visit for Christmas and he's bringing his new girlfriend, her son, and maybe my cousin.
And I started getting anxious because I'd have to talk to them and stuff and I don't wanna xD
I hope he lets them know I'm not that talkative and I prefer to be alone in my room and I don't hate them or anything and I'm not a snob 8u

Yeah, I'm not into sports at all. My parents always tried to get me to watch football and I'd rather bite my lip off u8

My dad's ex-wife gave me one of her shirts and I liked the way it smelled.
The smell made me feel at peace and happy - it was some kind of perfume she used.
But if someone sees you sniffing someone else's shirt - it's creepy Bu

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Dec 14th, '19, 12:52    


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There is a running joke in our house that since I'm a crime writer and obsessed with true crime, if anyone pisses me off too much, I know how to kill them and get away with it XD
I mean I do know, but I probably still wouldn't be able to pull it off. Physical strength is needed haha.

Next weekend we have to visit our relatives, it always gets awkward. Me and my dad both go into this like small talk coma where we get so tired of trying that we end up sitting silently and staring off into the distance. Meanwhile my mum is desperately trying to keep the conversation going with my grandma, who is so old she now regularly falls asleep mid-sentence haha. Or my uncle who used to hide away in his room consistently until about 5 years ago, so now we're all just mildly surprised to see him and have to figure out what to talk with him about.
Pretty sure he is in the closet tbh. I think he has started to be a bit freer with himself and that's why he came down, but i don't know if he will ever come out, at least not while grandma is alive. Maybe never because he doesn't seem to have a partner, so maybe he thinks why bother.

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Dec 16th, '19, 06:05    


Lady River

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ah families... forever awkward.


I like watching mindhunter, which reminds me I need to catch up on that

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Dec 17th, '19, 02:21    


Moi

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jacobgrey: I'm surprised no one's said that about me. All my family says is I'm a school shooter because I'm quiet and withdrawn.

I'm fine with close family that I live with and around.
Even then, I like to be alone.
I'd dig tunnels under the ground to get places and avoid people 8u

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Dec 21st, '19, 04:16    


Lady River

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I like visiting Peter's family, they get me to partake at times but if I don't want to they're not like my family where I really have to and should when I don't want to.

Granted it's because of Peter, and also because I'm a in-law. xD but it's still nice perk.

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Dec 23rd, '19, 12:37    


jacobgrey

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Got back yesterday from the visits. I can confirm the small talk comas happened XD
It was even more awkward because my grandma is getting really forgetful now and she didn't remember we were coming. Consequently when we arrived there were a couple of my adult cousins there with their kids, one of whom avoids any kind of socialising if he can help it (he left within minutes) and one of whom we're kind of not really talking to. It's a whole pettiness on her part and she kept bringing up the reason we're not really talking in a very deliberate way, which made it even more awkward before they finally left.

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