I have 3. XD Have you ever gotten one?

I think it's ok if they're fulfilling a dream and in many other cases. But I've met a couple that cried more than girls and that wasn't pretty. XD They shouldn't have made fun of him though. I'm sure he couldn't help it.

They do. *nods* I don't know anyone who doesn't feel like that. I liked it when I was a kid. I was a ham back then. XD

Probably. XD When my family is being loud and obnoxious my mom says that we're like the Klumps from the Nutty Professor. XD

Thanks. I just feel like it's a missed opportunity and I feel weird about just coming around now. I'd be mad if I were her. That's why I don't want to have a funeral. I don't want a bunch of people that didn't care enough about me to see me when I was alive coming just to see my dead body and pretend that they cared.

That sounds awesome, but, just to warn you, white eventually becomes skin-colored. It fades to the point you can't see anything but your original skin. The last time I got a tattoo I told them I didn't want any white because it just fades into the skin but they promised me it was made better nowadays and wouldn't do that. They lied. XD

Awww. That's so sweet.

True, but most of them are narcissists. XD I mean, a couple to show what you look like or to show you at an event is great. But some people, like my ex, are always taking pictures of themselves to show off to others. It's....worrisome. The whole social media culture is worrisome to me. It's like those people that send out letters with their Christmas cards telling everyone what they're up to and they're always so positive. No one's life is that perfect. XD My mom and I always threatened to send one out and tell the truth, every awful ounce of it. XD

That's true. Thanks for making me feel better. *hugs* Well, I'm sure the important ones, like your family, will be there.

Yeah, you can. I just never thought it was worth it but I don't have any tattoos that have a ton of white in them either.

I know. Personally, I've found that if someone wants to stalk you they don't wait for you to post pics of yourself online. I think it's mostly good advice for young kids and gullible people. XD Yeah, it's not good. I hate being lied to. I'd rather know the truth even if it might hurt. My son and his biological father are both pathological liars. If I didn't hate lies before, I certainly do now. It's really hard to deal with someone when you can't believe a word that comes out of their mouth. I haven't even been talking to my son because of that and so many other reasons. May I ask how you were able to stop? I mean, when you lied was it a conscious choice? I'm not sure my son knows when he's lying half of the time. I think he's delusional at this point. We should. XD We talked about a redneck version that wouldn't be the truth but would be closer to the truth than what most people put out there. XD

Well, we're not either so that's another reason we don't know her well. Neither side of my family is close to each other. I find that so sad.

They are beautiful. I have a black panther (my favorite) but it's not very good. XD

I'm glad you realized that the real you was the one everyone wanted to know. I'm also happy that everyone didn't give you a hard time about it. People make mistakes. Could be. Yeah, me too, not that I lie very often. I only lie to keep from hurting someone's feelings and once in a while to keep myself out of trouble. XD That was when I was younger.

That could be interesting too. XD

I had a cousin that I spent quite a bit of time with when I was younger. I bumped into her at a restaurant back in February. Before that, I hadn't seen her in years. She's very sweet and quiet. I wish I could talk to her more often again. I had a boy cousin that followed me around too. He got on my nerves though. Still does when I see him. XD

I hope you don't feel that way about yourself now. Awww, that was nice of them. Yeah, sometimes it's easy to tell when someone is lying, but it just depends.

XD I think little white lies are necessary sometimes. If someone asks me if they look fat in something I am NOT saying yes. XD

XD There's this one Youtuber whose Christmas tree is Halloween themed because she loves Halloween so much.

I hope you got them into trouble when they were mean to you. XD You could tell him anything. I think he'd probably enjoy hearing about your life, your critters, etc. From what I understand, it gets lonely in there and they crave news of the outside world.