@Moi: My mom thought I'd be a Scorpio and she really didn't want a Scorpio baby, so she was relieved that I came out sooner than expected. But my nephew was born a week after his due date. Today I told my grandma he's a Scorpio and she was like "No, he's a Libra...? Wait

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She was lowkey sour about the fact that back in her day there was no way of getting cute newborn photos and having your family at labour etc. She said they didn't even let grandpa visit her at the hospital and she was there for a week after birth! My sister went out after 2 days, if even that.
And about almost halloween babies, my greatgrandma was born on November 1st XD Which is also a national holiday here in Poland xD It's a celebration of deceased loved ones.
I love flying :D which is funny, beacuse I'm afraid of heights XD for some reason planes make me feel safe, lol.
I think the car accidents are more common simply because there's many more cars on the streets than planes in the air :P That and pilots don't fly the plane if they're not sober (I hope, lol), unlike many drivers.
@Jolien: Yeah, there's a history of bad blood, so to speak. And I think I have some stupid ptsd centered around my brother-in-law. I don't really know. In any case, it's difficult for me to even perceive him with just one sense, like hearing him or seeing him. I'm worried about going there to see my nephew and getting too overwhelmed by his father to really enjoy the limited time we'd have together. I mean, the little snot won't even care ;P But I would like to be able to keep my cool and not black out again like I did last time.