I share a room with my sister so…..if the other half of the room was given to me, i’d have a lot more room. XD maybe even put up an AC unit, hahaha.

That's intense!
I couldn't imagine trying to share a room with a sibling as an adult. Though I guess if you haven't lived outside of the home then you don't have to adjust back to it.

What do you guys do if you want to bring a partner home? It would be so awkward. I guess you could go to their place.

Well both my sister and i are adults and yeah we share a room…only, my sister uses her bed as a 3rd…4th? 5th? wardrobe. There’s more clothes on her bed than she has room to actually sleep in. Which, unsurprisingly, is why she sleeps a lot of the time on the pull out bed couch downstairs. 8U

I don’t have a partner, i barely have friends…8U i’m very antisocial irl. I’m a bit more freer online. My sister has a boyfriend so she sometimes stays with him on days when he’s off. He works as a nurse so he’s got odd hours.

The little dolls are so cute indeed QuQ But yeah they're pricey so I only have a few D: But I got super lucky with one and got a hidden edition! That was like one of my most lucky moments

I think sharing a room could work out if your personalities match and there's enough space! It helps when one or both isn't always in the room eh

That is a lot of clothes!

I am also not social in real life.
Though I did pursue my spouse very determinedly. I was like, this one is super cute and smart and sweet and I'm fuckin keeping him. lol.

My spouse's best friend is a nurse. But he's a higher-up one in a brain damage ward so he has a pretty set schedule.



Congrats! That sounds great. What does it look like?

Not for me. My personality is not conducive to sharing a space with someone I'm not intimate with. lol.

It's this! (Hopefully link works)
https://ae01.alicdn.com/kf/H4c83768a919 ... d04afe.jpg

LOL you go Deb! XDDD

I don't think I ever actively pursued anyone... It's always like... tentatively poking >_> Then again none of my romantic relationships ever worked out well OTL, giving up on that for now

The summer solstice? So cute! I like the colors a lot.

Well romance certainly isn't everything. lol.

We actually started out as friends with benefits. Then we caught feelings! Oh noes! Been together almost 12 years now.

I do not suggest this path for everyone because it definitely does not work for everyone.

My poor best friend has had many lovers and none of them have stuck around for even a short relationship. I don't know why because she is super awesome. Unfortunately, she's very straight. Oh well.

While I'm glad that I pursued the relationship I would enjoy being courted. I want someone to romance me!

Yessss it's gorgeous, I keep it in its own little display case :D
There's a matching winter solstice one too that's the hidden style for the second half of the solar terms set, idk if I have enough luck to get it ever /D;;;

Romance really isn't everything /D;;; I'm a bit of a workaholic so my work-life balance is terrible, and that usually causes problems. I learned to give up on it after multiple tries at relationships failed due to me simply not able to prioritize it enough

Btw Deb I LOVE your new avi!!! It is so striking!!!

yeah the dolls look real cute. but yeah, i wouldn't have room for them. xD my table is already cluttered enough with an entire row of figurines from MDZS. xD

i'm fine with how much room i have? xD;; i mean, i suppose it would be awesome if i could have the room to myself but iunno, it might take some getting used to, since i'd always be wondering where that other person is. xD besides, my sister and i, we just kinda mind our own business.

yeah, she's got a lot of clothes....8U
and i'm also not very social. unless we start talking about something interesting to me, i'll keep my mouth shut and just......muddle quietly along. xD;;
i mean, i dunno what kind of nurse he is but he seems to schedule his own shifts and stuff.....i dunno, i don't really ask. xD;;

Natsuyuki - That's cute! I hope that you get that one too. Then they can be friends.

I think that having a partner can definitely help with work-life balance. Like they want you around more so you stop spending extra time at work.

But yeah. You do you. Romance is like an extra. Like strawberries on a nice cake.

Thank you! I like yours a lot, too!



Hotarla - How old are you? Just curious. I'm 31.

I like having space to stretch out. lol